We entered the
large, cavernous warehouse completely empty except for a small area that was
set up to look like a living room in someone’s home. There was a brown leather
couch with a side table, a homey standing lamp all arranged on a Persian rug, lit up by
spotlights. The rest of the vast space was dark in comparison exception for
natural light that streamed in through the windows surrounding the
building. In front of the living room set, a plain long table was set up where the decision makers were seated in folding chairs with their notepads
and pens in hand. They were dressed like triples, three middle aged men, very
different in appearance except for their clothes, all in khaki pants with polo
shirts that had the collars sticking up and Gucci loafers without socks. One
had a head full of curls, the other had slicked back straight hair and the
third was completely bald. A camera man was standing to the side of the stage with his hand-held pointing at me as I walked to the couch
with Blondie. Everyone was quiet waiting for us to begin. I had no idea what I was supposed to do. Neither did Blondie.
Sleep With Dogs
For as long as I can remember, I've been an excellent judge of character--canine character. Not so with men. Sleep With Dogs is a serial blog that compares the relationships I've had with men to the kinship I feel with the dogs in my life.
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
Enter the professional dogs and their trainers
Finally, some professional
handlers showed up with their dogs. I could tell they were in the business
because they came prepared with their dog crates, bait bags, treats and other
training paraphernalia. I, on the other hand, was the person with my dog pulling
me around on a leash, sniffing, and barking, out of control, and obviously not
trained. I peaked inside the crates of the handlers at the other dogs and breathed a sigh of relief; none were as beautiful as Blondie.
Since she was the
prettiest dog there by far, at least in my estimation, I immediately felt at
ease and confident that she had a good shot at being chosen for the spokes dog. How could I have ever doubted my Blondie? I was imagining her future,
being mobbed by fans screaming for her pawdegragh, becoming the poster dog for
shelters nationwide, encouraging people to rescue dogs, the two of us meeting Oprah and sharing our heart warming story of how this little dog changed my life
and the world.
“Lady, lady, hey
you,” I was awakened from my day dream by a man shouting to follow him inside.
I yanked Blondie forward as the trainers in line snickered, I imagined them
talking behind my back and asking each other what was this person doing here
with this obviously untrained mutt?
Thursday, April 25, 2013
The big audition
The next day, I took Blondie to the audition at a warehouse in Culver City . We were the first to arrive. Living in LA, I always gave myself ample time driving to new locations in case I got lost, which I frequently did. But that day, was an exception. I pulled up to the grey, drab building in the middle of an industrial area that seemed totally abandoned. I wasn't even sure I was in the right place. I double checked the address and Blondie and I walked around the building.
In the back of the parking lot, I spotted a sign that read in big black letters DOG AUDITION HERE. So that’s where Blondie and I stood waiting. And waiting. Patience is not a virtue that I have mastered so I became restless and felt uneasy about the whole thing. I was fidgeting and biting my nails, twirling my hair and basically psyching myself into a frenzy. I realized that I hadn't really thought this through before I arrived and now I was starting to have second thoughts.
Monday, April 22, 2013
Raggedy Ann
The dogs came
bounding into the living room like two toddlers, twirling and jumping, barking
and play-growling. Elliott was carrying something in his mouth furiously
shaking the object to get Blondie to play tug with him.
“Elliott, give me
that,” the elegant greyhound spun around, out of my grasp, tail in the air
ready for a game of chase. Blondie turned and excitedly bowed her front paws
down on the ground with her butt in the air barking at him.
“Stop it you two!”
They both looked up at me in surprised. Elliott
dropped to the floor so I could
pull the object from his mouth. It was my original Raggedy Ann doll I had since
I was three years old completely ripped apart. Raggedy Ann is a rag doll with red yarn for hair, a triangle nose and a special hidden heart under her signature dress and apron. Created in 1915, the doll became popular three years later with the introduction of the book, Raggedy Ann Stories. My mom had given her to me and I had kept her safe all these years. I held the doll and cradled her broken
body, stuffing coming out everywhere. I knew Elliott didn't mean to ruin my
childhood keep-sake but he did and I was extremely saddened by the loss.
“What happened?” Ryan keeled down and put his arms around me.
Clutching pieces
of my doll, Blondie faced me with a look of concern, tilting her head slightly,
kissing my tears. Poor Elliott stood back up and wagged his tail not knowing what
to do but trying to make us laugh.
“ I've had her forever,”
I explained.
“I’m so sorry,”
Ryan said as he turned to reprimand Elliott. “Bad Dog!” Elliott cowered as Ryan
lifted his hand to strike.
“Don’t hit him. He didn't know what he was doing,” I said. “Besides, it’s too late now. He won’t
associate the consequence with ripping up my doll,” I reasoned and hugged the
big lug of a dog.
Friday, April 19, 2013
Changing my mind...again
“Ryan, we need to talk,” I said on his answering machine.
I thought it was best to at least give him a warning that something was seriously wrong. He got the message because he immediately called me back and made plans to come over. Of course, he brought Elliott.
“Hello beautiful,”
he said as I opened the door. “What are you making for dinner?” Elliott, the complete goofball that he was, stumbled into my apartment and
ran into my bedroom to play with Blondie.
“Hello to you too,
Elliott,” I patted the big greyhound on the back as he sped by. “Let’s sit down and talk for
a minute.”
“Great. I wanted
to tell you about something,” he sounded exceedingly excited. “Get this. I saw an ad today
about an open audition," he stated with a twinkle in his eyes. You’ll never believe it -- for a paint commercial
looking for – are you ready? A dog. I immediately thought of Blondie.”
“Really?” Just
like that, I forgot about breaking up with him. He had my number. “You think
she could be in a commercial?”
“Why not? It says
open casting call,” he handed me the ad, carefully cut out for me. Then he totally surprised me by asking to cook. Granted, he didn't bring anything to cook with but at least he offered.
“Let me make dinner tonight for you. Do you
have any pasta? It’s my turn to cook for a change.”
Oh my God. Was he reading my mind? Maybe there was a
chance, despite our age difference.
Thursday, April 18, 2013
Why aren't you married?
Young Ryan knew I was disappointed with him after the Valentine's Day debacle. It was impossible for him not to know, I was behaving different. It was as if I was watching myself be a mean girl but I couldn't control my anger towards him. It seemed like the ants marched off with the spark that made our relationship work. Our age difference was taking its toll on me. I felt stuck compared
to my other friends.
Barb and her husband
were planning a trip to Hawaii with their kids. They were bringing a sitter too so they could have some adult time together on the island of Maui. My other friend Mary received an entire new wardrobe from her husband that Christmas while Kate’s husband always picked up the tab everywhere we
went. Ryan couldn't even afford to take me to McDonald's. Add to this the
extreme pressure I felt every time I spoke to my mom, constantly badgering me
about getting married, and I was headed for a complete meltdown. I needed to
break it off with Ryan so I could meet the man of my dreams.
Tuesday, April 16, 2013
How romantic
There I was, with an actual boyfriend on Valentine's Day who brought me actual flowers, freaking out about the bugs he unintentionally brought into my home with the bundles of flowers he hand-picked for me. At this point, I would have appreciated one lovely store bought bouquet. But it was what it was and it was up to me to do something about the pests.
“First, get all
the flowers out of here and into the dumpster in the alley,” I commanded, now
in full combat mode.
My young boyfriend Ryan looked like he
was going to cry, but then he complied to my demands like a wounded solider, scooping up
fistfuls of flowers and tearing down the stairs of my apartment to the garbage.
I dumped my
bedding into large trash bags to take to the Laundromat. Next, I put the dogs
in my car so they wouldn’t be hurt by the bug spray.
Ryan was running
as fast as he could up and down the stairs with his arms filled with flowers
while I was spraying the hell out of the ants and spiders. We were quite a team. We both
got on our hands and knees and cleaned up the dead ants with paper towels, then
took the bedding to the Laundromat. That’s how we spent Valentine’s Day,
killing ants and washing bedding. How romantic.
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