I hadn’t gone very
far before the littlest, Natalie’s younger brother, a toddler barely walking,
fell and started wailing. I picked him up, carried him to the backyard and
placed him into his mother Kate’s arms. I made sure to let her know that he
fell, he was not wounded by Blondie. Then I said good bye and left with my
dog, my family.
I was furious!
Here were my friends with their husbands and kids. I had celebrated them all.
Gone to their wedding showers, weddings, baby showers, hospitals when
babies were born and more. All I had for my family was this little mutt, Blondie. She
was it.
Since Kate had been my friend since elementary school, it was
impossible for me to stay mad at her for long. After a few days I knew I simply had to work this out. So I called Kate.
“I am so sorry, Sue,” were the
first words out of Kate mouth. I was relieved. She of all people would
understand. And she did. She knew my love of dogs started with my childhood mutt Siesta. Kate understood how much that
dog meant to me. She, more than anyone else in the world, knew my problem of choosing the wrong man time and time again.
Kate was with me since the beginning, when I began my cycle of making the wrong choices when it came to men (or boys, even). It all started way back in the
first grade. Lots of boys liked me. Especially Donald. He was a good
boy, a nice kid. I distinctly remember him following me around, tying my shoes
and sharing his lunch, even giving me his home made chocolate chip cookies. In the first grade, he got in
trouble for proposing marriage to me in class, actually getting down on
one knee during reading time. I was so embarrassed that I tried to stay away
from him for the rest of the school year, much to the dismay of my mother who was hopeful that one day I would actually walk down the isle with Donald. But Donald just wasn't the one for me. Over
all the boys, it was Charlie who stole my heart.
I knew the feelings were mutual but sometimes Charlie had a funny way of
showing it. Like the time he ran up from behind me and hit me on the shoulder;
a little too hard. He knocked me down and I almost broke my arm from the fall.
Or the day he challenged me on the playground in a game of dodge ball. He threw
the ball at me with such force; it hit me right in the stomach, knocking the
wind out of me. I fell over in pain and had to go to the nurses’ office to
recover. Needless to say, our love was a little confusing at times. Who better
to discuss boy trouble with than Siesta?
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